- Solved
- Redefined in
order to achieve needed satisfaction; or
- Avoided through
needed resignation and relinquishment of goals.
If the rape crisis is not solved, major
disorganization may ensue. The rape victim may have general
feelings of helplessness, be in a state of confusion and
have the inability to think clearly about how to evaluate
reality.
This first phase has been described as
an acute reaction taking the form of shock, disbelief,
and dismay. This is when the victim first realizes that
she must deal with the consequences of the rape, pressing
charges, friends attitudes, etc. The victim may be
agitated, incoherent or in a highly volatile state. She
may appear stable and in control only to break down suddenly.
How soon and to whom the victim tells
about the rape provides an early clue about her own feelings
of what happened to her and her role in it. This is why
talking to someone is so important so they can help
clarify feelings, help make decisions on reporting the
rape and giving options, including medical and legal assistance.
There is usually a marked decrease in the victims
anxiety after discussing the incident with someone.
If the survivor seeks support, this phase
usually resolves within a few weeks. She must be given
information as well as support counseling to turn her non-specific
anxiety into helping her concentrate on resolving problems
created by the rape (e.g., whether or not to report, whether
or not to press charges, whether or not to tell family
or friends).
Phase Two Repression or Outward
Adjustment
This stage is characterized by a rationalization of the
rape. The victim appears to have "forgotten" it
and appears to have resolved the issue. After the immediate
issues have been temporarily dealt with, the victim usually
returns to her ordinary routine of life. This seeming adjustment
is reassuring to those who have been involved with her during
the crisis. She will usually announce during this phase that
all is well and will break off any counseling she might have
been receiving.
It is during this stage that there is
heavy denial and suppression. She denies the rape had a
personal impact on her, and she concentrates on protecting
the feelings of those close to her. It is important that
she addresses her feelings about the rapist during this
stage, but she usually subdues her feelings and goes about
her daily routine. She is usually very passive about the
rape and her role in the assault, looking at it from a
third party viewpoint. This stage represents another step
toward true resolution of the rape.
Phase Three Reorganization
or Integration
This phase begins when the victim develops an inner sense
of depression and feels the need to talk about her feelings
and the situation. Concerns, which have been dealt with superficially
or denied successfully, reappear for more comprehensive review.
The depression that sets in during this stage is psychologically
normal in most cases.
In order to resolve her feelings, the
victim is encouraged to accept the rape and realize the
impact it has had on her feelings and life. During this
phase, the victim experiences the reemergence of previous
troubling responses, and she may have suicidal thoughts.
The victim may appear to be "getting worse instead
of better". Her relationships may be under great stress
as she begins to grapple with deep-seated feelings about
the rape.
This phase may begin with a specific
incident such as the case going to trial, or if she realizes
she is unable to subdue her fears and feelings as in Phase
Two. She may find herself thinking about the rape after
seeing a person of the same race as the rapist, reading
a magazine article or seeing a television show about rape,
or any unexplained situation.
In this stage, the victim may experience
insomnia, nightmares, and various physical symptoms. It
is important that she is encouraged to explore her emotions
openly and begin to put an end to the nightmare.
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